I’m feeling scratchy like a piece of sandpaper that’s been misused. A bit ripped and bald in some places but sharp in others.

It’s a freakin’ women’s group on Facebook that I’m reacting to…

Well, more exactly, a post by a woman in her forties extolling her life-style with a supposed-to-be, I guess, alluringly posed photo.

She remarked that, while others of her age were spreading, she was trimmer now than in her late teens. She delighted in letting us know she only had a small area of cellulite on her bum.

I wish she’d just had sex with herself and be done with it!

The majority of comments were in support of her. Some not. One was about fat shaming. And by comparing and praising herself in comparison with her ‘spreading’ peers she was, indeed, fat-shaming.

Then the thought police got going…

Comments criticising women for being bitchy because they spoke their truth about what they saw. I expressed my concern that women were being labelled ‘bitchy’ when their comments didn’t agree with the majority ‘oh you are so wonderful.’

They saw something different… and so did I!

Anyhow, an admin shut down the ability to comment shortly after. Don’t let’s be controversial whatever we do…

My heart goes out to the woman who made the original post. To over-identify with any aspect of yourself, in this case physicality, is to deny the rest of you.

You are so much more than just your body.

As time goes by, aging will occur. It’s the way of things.

Skin becomes thinner and more transparent showing veins that break or rise to the surface. Melatonin clumps together to form ‘age spots.’ And don’t get me started on senile warts…

And that’s just your skin!

But your beauty and gorgeousness of spirit has nothing to do with the way your body looks. They’ll shine through whatever if you keep experiencing your purpose and manifesting what you desire.

I love my aging body. It’s amazing how it’s kept me going and enables me to be alive to do more of the things I love.

What a gift, eh?

Love to you…

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