Writing this on ‘freedom’ day as assigned by the government.
What a load of baloney!
All Covid-19 precautions in England, except self-isolating as and when, no longer mandatory but recommended. Watch out for an exponential rise in cases, hospitalisations and deaths.
But if not now when then?
OK… Not getting caught up in Covid craziness. The point is you can’t activate freedom from the outside. It’s abso-freakin-lutely an inside job…
Once I was hurt and hard.
I could do the small talk thing. I could do the heated discussion thing. I could even do the smiling thing. But inside I often felt empty or numb.
Mostly I felt alone.
Mostly I felt like I didn’t fit in with where I was and what I was doing. I was doing stuff to please others, to be liked, even loved and most definitely thought acceptable.
Early one morning, the fresh smells of my rain soaked garden seized me through the open door…
And I remembered…
I remembered how I had closed my heart so nobody could hurt me ever again… or so I thought.
(BTW, paradoxically, the defences we create are usually bloody useless and let in exactly the person or thing that’s going to screw you over in the way you wanted to defend against!)
Trouble is when you close your heart against others you close it against yourself. No choice. The switch is either on or off.
What triggered me to remember feeling heart closed, hurt and hard?
A book about the universe has your back and, to align yourself with the universe, you need to replace fear with love.
Fear of being hurt, fear of not being good enough, fear of being found out a fraud, fear of not being ‘respectable,’ fear of being odd, an outsider, fear of not being liked, loved, acceptable, fear about anyone getting near to me, seeing the real me…
Even the fear of the fear of the fear of… who the hell knows!
Self-sabotage par excellence!
Eventually I crashed and started peeling away the layers of fear, building inner resources and resilience and opening my heart…
I smashed my own glass ceiling barrier to love and being loved!
Most of all for myself…
Feeling hurt and hard or alive with love and aligned to the universe?
No brainer, huh?
Whatever your self-sabotage, the not-good-enoughs, fear of xyz or whatever, I show you how to escape its clutches, build a whole new creative belief from it and smash the glass ceiling limitations it created for you.
Feeling you fit more comfortably in your skin, confident and able, living life more fully AND manifesting whatever you desire in your personal and professional life.
Now that’s what I call freedom! My Wild Soul Freedom Club opens to new members in September to a limited number of women. And that’s no bullshit! I’m looking for quality not quantity. Check it out here… https://www.thewildelder.com/wild-soul-freedom-club-waiting-list/
Love and warm wild wishes…
From self-sabotage to success through the power of your Wild Soul!
PS: Of course you can work with me one to one. AND if you prefer the magic and mystery of women’s gatherings, of working with other like-souled women as engaged as you in freeing themselves from old limiting ways of being, Wild Soul Freedom Club is for you. Read about it here…